This article was co-authored by John Keegan and wikiHow staff writer Madeleine Flamiano. John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs Awakened Lifestyles, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and conducts dating workshops internationally from Los Angeles to London and Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in The New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men’s Health.

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